Motivation

Let’s Make Failure To Success Again!

Success has a very broad/ comprehensive definition., you can succeed in various ways. However, why does the desire to achieve success actually feel heavy? There is the time when people failing to achieve success, and it also happened to many people of course. But, no matter how hard you work or whatever you try, success will still be difficult to achieve if you are used to doing these things.

The first matter is you have so many plans, but never really tried to make it happen. You might have made a priority list clearly. No hesitation in writing your first goal in the top position. But, do you really believe and understand your own desires and have you made the right efforts for your wishes? Even though we have determined our goals, often we still walk giddily. When we are not good at do the act, so we make efforts that are not in the same line with the goals.

Just Focus On Your Goals

Busy, part-time work or activity in joining organizations even though your main goal is to find scholarships to study degree or master. You can start with the simplest step of writing your main goals in a journal. Also, write down the strategies and ways in which you will achieve them. Routine writing your achievements in a journal will help you focus on one goal. Another thing you must pay attention is when you have not yet succeeded in achieving your success, maybe the reason is the only one which is your steps are still in doubt. There are times when you consider a failure is understandable.

For example, you are taking exams for 2 courses in one day, but you choose to give up one of them and focus on just one course. You are not a failure if you still do this method. Success is a matter of working in effective and balanced ways. Emphasize to yourself that you deserve the best results. Never feel fine and try to tolerate your failure. You just have to find a way to manage your study time and prepare yourself for the exam. The better the preparations you make you more confident and steady working on your exam. There is another important thing which can be a bad reason, instead of fixing it, you are busy to understanding your own limitations.

Prevent These Bad Reason

Sometimes, people fail and then have a unique behavior. They can rightly say that they really don’t have much achievement and skill, that they are so lazy to learn or they don’t seem able to build their own business. Of course, those are just easily recognized limitations. Lightly forgive himself who cannot learn or work optimally. So, how can you succeed if you are not sure yourself? Get rid of thoughts that will only weaken you. Don’t believe that you are not great enough or not smarter than other people. Use all the abilities and skills you have for the best achievements you can achieve. Other bad behavior makes excuses. And assuming failure deserves understanding. Do you believe that those who fail actually are very smart in analyzing the situation and making excuses?

When they fail they will try to defend themselves, find logical reasons for something that cannot be achieved. Most common moves are just being realistic, they justify themselves when they fail to get something even if they haven’t tried it at all. To prevent this, is simple, don’t want to be someone who fails by stopping looking for excuses. There’s nothing wrong with being a little hard on yourself because that’s how you can refocus on your goals. Not only that, high-hearted attitude makes you reluctant to open up and learn from other people who are more expert.

Failing is not a simple matter, many factors influence it, including the ability of one’s social interaction. People who fail tend to be arrogant, do not know how to behave and treat others. They did not give greetings to strangers, say thank you, or give praise to friends who have achieved. This attitude of arrogance and ignorance is an indication that they are reluctant to acknowledge his lacks. He is lazy to know and learn new things from the people he meets. This lazy attitude to learning is what is sure to be the cause of various failures experienced in life.